should i be in a relationship?this is not a translation work,it's a real question!plzi only had one relationship with a wrong guy3 yrs ago ,and that relationship just lasted one month.btw,i am 24.be frank,there are some guys wanted to be my bf during

should i be in a relationship?this is not a translation work,it's a real question!plzi only had one relationship with a wrong guy3 yrs ago ,and that relationship just lasted one month.btw,i am 24.be frank,there are some guys wanted to be my bf during
should i be in a relationship?this is not a translation work,it's a real question!plz
i only had one relationship with a wrong guy3 yrs ago ,and that relationship just lasted one month.btw,i am 24.be frank,there are some guys wanted to be my bf during the 3 yrs,but i just feel it will be unfair to them if i cant love them back.
Till couple of days ago,"i'll be his gf if i wanted to be with him" is one of my rules.but i wanna be in a relationship NOW.there are some guys like me,and a few of them left me good impressions.but ..i dont love any of them.the question is ,in that case,should i be in this way to gain more experience?then when i met the one for me,i wont ruin the relationship and lose him.
i am so indecisive.i feel i am selfish to some extent and "be with someone that i dont love back" is against my rule.i am so unsure.
hmm,many female friends told me that love can be developed,find someone that loves you,not someone you love.i dunno.i always wanted to find somebody to love.(ps:i loved 2 guys,and they loved me back,first one is my classmate when we was 15,we were shy and now we are just friends.i met another one at my 20,we were not official,just flirting.i cut the connection when i realized that we were not meant to be,and he hurt me,and the love faded away)
i am wrong abt the rule?should i develop love with someone who loves me?
thx for your answer in advance

should i be in a relationship?this is not a translation work,it's a real question!plzi only had one relationship with a wrong guy3 yrs ago ,and that relationship just lasted one month.btw,i am 24.be frank,there are some guys wanted to be my bf during
I can tell that you're a girl of principle,for which I admire you.
There's nothing wrong with your rules,because they make you become the person who you are.
My advice is first,of course,stick to your rules,and second,find the one you love rather than the one who loves you,because the whole thing is about you living in the world in a way you wanted.
Following your heart is the most important thing.Make the decision that you'll never regret.
Hope you can figure it out soon and refresh yourself.